
The Behold Blog
Be Used or Beloved?
He approached us with rapid steps and a worried look, calling out “Hey—are you guys part of the neighborhood?” Drew and I nodded, stopping our evening walk to see what this man intended to say to us. As he drew closer, I noticed bruises on his eye and chin…
The Gift of Being Irrelevant
Saturday mornings in our home are waffle mornings, which is a tradition my husband and I take very seriously. . .
Sepia-Toned Memories and the Kingdom of God
Drew and I recently had the pleasure of hosting a touring musician and his artist wife in our home. J and Torrey are the kind of people you meet and almost instantly know you could be good friends if only you had a shared context and they did not live on the opposite side of the country…
What Brings Us to Our Knees
When is the last time you fell to your knees—in awe, in terror, in supplication?…
Abide With Me
I was sitting on a couch in the back of a 15-foot U-Haul in the parking lot of a storage facility, waiting for more boxes to arrive. My family is moving again, for the 15th+ time in their lives. But this time, it feels permanent…
Living at the Speed of Jesus
I’d like to begin this piece by thanking my spiritual director, Summer. She has journeyed with me since 2017—long enough to be able to detect meaningful patterns in my spiritual life as well as identify and celebrate areas of growth…
But Deliver Us from Evil
It happened again. I was praying the Lord’s Prayer along with my congregation on Sunday when a line took hold of me and would not loosen its grip: Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil…
Baptize My Eyes
I first prayed the prayer that is changing my life under the fluorescent lights of a Walmart return line…
I Asked for Rainbows
On my sister’s birthday, I asked for rainbows. It was a kaleidoscopic weather day, in which the clouds move faster than your racing heart and the sun and darkness shift like smoke and the rain falls on your upturned face but so does the light upon your shoulders…
The Re-membering Hands of God
The first time Drew and I held hands, I experienced two things at once: exhilaration and guilt. My divorce had been finalized earlier that day, and I remember my mother and sisters creating a special dinner outside on our deck overlooking Lake Sammamish…
The Two Gardens
Today is Maundy Thursday. On this day two thousand years ago, Jesus was weeping in a garden. He had just finished a meal with his closest friends, knowing that one would betray him, the other deny him, and still more would fall asleep on him. But Jesus loved them anyways…
But Our Eyes Are on You
Get ready for a sort-of embarrassing poem straight from the heart of my exuberant eight-year-old self…
Step Into the Light
Have you ever seen Disney’s 1991 animated version of Beauty and the Beast? If not, please put your entire life on hold and go watch it. It is enchanting, through and through. When I was a little girl, I had a giant princess-shaped pillow with Belle on the front holding a stack of books in one hand and her skirt in the other, posing in a winsome “Who, Me?” fashion…
Even Sorrow
This week, I’m simply sharing a poem. My soul and body have been weary, so I wasn’t planning to write anything since it has become continuously apparent that sorrow cannot, as it were, be confined to a one-week acceptable grieving period—as much as I have tried…
Blessed Are the Humiliated
Spring never fails to surprise me. Each year, it seems like such an impossibility that life could blossom from the sterile harshness of winter. But it does. This Tuesday morning, I set out with a hopeful heart into the damp possibility of spring…
Grieving with Hope
My sweet grandpa died on Sunday morning.
Since then, I’ve been aimlessly wandering around the house with a hammer in hand and nails in my mouth, searching for the perfect place to hang art—only to take it down a few hours later…
The Hope of Heaven
I had the privilege of sitting at my grandfather’s bedside last week, and what I experienced was hard and holy, tearful and joyful…
Even Though I Walk
My palms were sweaty and my 4-year-old heart was beating rapidly. Sitting in a circle with my preschool class, I began to squirm; the stakes were high. It was almost my turn…
Though the Darkness Hide Thee
I had forgotten to anticipate those horrible eye drops. Each time my yearly eye exam rolls around, I naively think to myself, “I’ll just pop in, pop out, and have a joyously productive afternoon.” Yet every year, I leave with stinging, dilated eyes and pupils the size of a cat’s, utterly incapacitated for the next 4-6 hours…